default features: make musl usable without feature test macros

the old behavior of exposing nothing except plain ISO C can be
obtained by defining __STRICT_ANSI__ or using a compiler option (such
as -std=c99) that predefines it. the new default featureset is POSIX
with XSI plus _BSD_SOURCE. any explicit feature test macros will
inhibit the default.

installation docs have also been updated to reflect this change.

include/aio.h

@@ -5,12 +5,7 @@
 extern "C" {
 #endif
 
-#if __STDC_VERSION__ >= 199901L
-#define __restrict restrict
-#elif !defined(__GNUC__)
-#define __restrict
-#endif
-
+#include <features.h>
 #include <signal.h>
 #include <time.h>